Syrian toddler's dad: 'Everything I was dreaming of is gone'

Two-year-old Aylan Kurdi was born into a country eaten up by war. His parents, Abdullah and Rehen, only wanted a better life for Aylan and his 4-year-old brother, Galip, than they had in Kobani, Syria.

They wanted what anyone does -- what hundreds of thousands of people fleeing violence, who have flooded Europe, want -- a safe home.

Trying to make that simple but treacherous dream a reality, Aylan, his brother and mother drowned. An image of the boy's body on a Turkish beach shook social media and outraged leaders in Canada, where the family had hoped to wind up, and many others watching the European migrant crisis unfold.

Young refugee's body washes ashore in Turkey

An officer in Bodrum, Turkey, carries Aylan's body away from the shore on Wednesday, September 2. The child was one of 12 refugees who drowned Wednesday during a failed attempt to sail to the Greek island of Kos.

Authorities stand near the child's lifeless body. This photo has been shared widely around the world, often with a Turkish hashtag that means "Flotsam of Humanity."

The body of a 2-year-old boy who washed ashore in Turkey has been identified as Aylan Kurdi, seen here on the left with his brother, Galip. Their mother, Rehen, also died, Fin Donnelly, a member of the Canadian Parliament, told CNN partner CTV. The boys' aunt, Tima Kurdi, who lives in Canada, posted this image to Facebook.

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An officer in Bodrum, Turkey, carries Aylan's body away from the shore on Wednesday, September 2. The child was one of 12 refugees who drowned Wednesday during a failed attempt to sail to the Greek island of Kos.

Authorities stand near the child's lifeless body. This photo has been shared widely around the world, often with a Turkish hashtag that means "Flotsam of Humanity."

The body of a 2-year-old boy who washed ashore in Turkey has been identified as Aylan Kurdi, seen here on the left with his brother, Galip. Their mother, Rehen, also died, Fin Donnelly, a member of the Canadian Parliament, told CNN partner CTV. The boys' aunt, Tima Kurdi, who lives in Canada, posted this image to Facebook.

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On Thursday, four Syrian citizens were taken into custody, suspected of human trafficking in connection with their deaths and those of nine others whose bodies washed ashore, according to Turkey's semiofficial Anadolu news agency.

Abdullah, the only Kurdi family member to survive the trip, says he has nothing left to live for.

"I don't want anything else from this world," he told CNN on Thursday. "Everything I was dreaming of is gone. I want to bury my children and sit beside them until I die."

 

Trying to get to Canada

 

Canadian Member of Parliament Fin Donnelly told CNN partner CTV that Abdullah's sister Tima Kurdi, who lives in Vancouver, had filed refugee paperwork to obtain permission for the family to live in Canada, but the application had been rejected in June.

But Tima Kurdi, in a later interview Thursday with CTV, said she had actually filed paperwork for her other brother, Mohammed, and that was rejected.

The Department of Citizenship and Immigration Canada confirmed Thursday it never received an application for Abdullah.

"An application for Mr. Mohammad Kurdi and his family was received by the department but was returned as it was incomplete as it did not meet regulatory requirements for proof of refugee status recognition," the agency announced. "There was no record of an application received for Mr. Abdullah Kurdi and his family. Canada did not offer citizenship to Mr. Abdullah Kurdi."

Tima Kurdi said she was hoping to personally put up the money to sponsor Mohammed and his four children to come to Canada. They are now in Germany.

Meanwhile, she had been sending money to Abdullah. She presumes that Abdullah used those funds to try to get his family to Canada. Tima knew of his plans to take the dangerous voyage, she said, and she recalled a phone call with Abdullah's wife in which Rehen said she was afraid to travel by water.

I'm so scared of the water," Tima recalled her sister-in-law saying. "I don't know how to swim."

The world learned of Aylan's death when a photo of the drowned boy was shared widely on social media, many using the hashtag #KıyıyaVuranİnsanlık or "Flotsam of Humanity" in Turkish.

The body of a drowned baby washes up on Turkish beach

The body of a drowned baby washes up on Turkish beach 

It shows the toddler on his stomach, face down on a beach in Turkey. He looks like he's sleeping the way so many children his age do, with their bottoms raised and heads gently to the side.

The journalist who shot the photo expressed the outrage, despair and helplessness that it would go on to inspire in many people who saw it.

"There was nothing to do except taking his photograph," said Nilufer Demir, who works for Turkey's Dogan News Agency. "There was nothing to do. And that is exactly what I did. I thought this is the only way I can express the scream of his silent body."

Many are demanding to know what went wrong. Why did this child, his brother and mother have to die? Wasn't there some way to give them that safer life?

 

A trip tried several times

 

Abdullah Kurdi says he boarded a small fiberglass boat in Turkey with 12 people on board. The vessel was manned by two smugglers, a Turk and a Syrian, he said. It was very crowded.

"I told him, 'Should we empty the boat? Should I get off with my wife and child?'"

One of the smugglers replied, "'No, no, it is good,'" Abdullah recounted.

Large waves began crashing against the boat soon after the refugees set out.

Europe's refugee crisis in 20 photos

Europe's refugee crisis in 20 photos

Local residents and rescue workers help migrants from the sea after a boat carrying them sank off the island of Rhodes, Greece, on April 20.

A group of refugees cross a highway near Horgos, Serbia, toward the Hungarian border on August 28.

Investigators in Burgenland, Austria, inspect an abandoned truck August 27 that contained the bodies of refugees who died of suffocation. The 71 victims -- most likely <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2015/08/28/europe/migrant-crisis/index.html" target="_blank">fleeing war-ravaged Syria</a> -- were 60 men, eight women and three children.

Syrian refugees sleep on the floor of a train car taking them from Macedonia to the Serbian border on August 30.

Migrants wait to receive necessary documents at a refugee center in the town of Presevo, Serbia, on August 26.

A migrant jumps a fence in Calais, France, as he attempts to access the Channel Tunnel leading to England on August 5.

Policemen try to disperse hundreds of migrants by spraying them with fire extinguishers during a registration procedure at a stadium in Kos, Greece, on August 11.

Refugees walk past people on a beach in Calais, France, during a demonstration on August 8.

Military personnel carry a coffin during an April 23 funeral service in Valletta, Malta, for 24 migrants who drowned while trying to reach the southern coast of Italy.

A refugee holding her child is detained at a train station in Bicske, Hungary, on September 3.

Syrian refugees walk the rails as they try to cross from Serbia into Hungary near Horgos on September 1.

So far in 2015, more than 300,000 refugees and migrants crossed the Mediterranean, exceeding the number in all of 2014, which was 219,000, a United Nations spokeswoman said. Click through to see images from the refugee crisis in Europe.

Authorities stand near the lifeless body of 2-year-old Aylan Kurdi on the shore of Bodrum, Turkey. Aylan, his brother Galip, and their mother <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2015/09/03/europe/migration-crisis-aylan-kurdi-turkey-canada/index.html" target="_blank">drowned while fleeing Syria</a>. This photo has been shared widely around the world, often with a Turkish hashtag that means "Flotsam of Humanity."

A Syrian refugee, holding his son and daughter, cries tears of joy after their boat arrived on the Greek island of Kos on August 15. The island in the Aegean Sea has been overwhelmed by Syrian refugees.

A migrant in Gevgelija, Macedonia, tries to sneak on a train bound for Serbia on August 17. More than 1,000 migrants enter Macedonia daily from Greece, heading north through the Balkans on their way to more prosperous countries in the European Union.

A French police officer tries to prevent migrants from heading for the Channel Tunnel to England in the northern French city of Calais on June 17.

Refugees rescued off the Libyan coast peer out a gate of the Norwegian ship Siem Pilot to get the first sight of Sardinia as they sail in the Mediterranean Sea toward Cagliari, Italy, on September 3.

A Belgian navy sailor throws life vests to refugees during a search-and-rescue mission in the Mediterranean off the Libyan coast on June 23.

Migrants board a train at Keleti station in Budapest, Hungary, after the station was reopened on September 3.

Children cry as migrants in Greece try to break through a police cordon to cross into Macedonia on August 21. Thousands of migrants -- most of them fleeing Syria's bitter conflict -- were stranded in a <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2015/08/22/europe/europe-macedonia-migrant-crisis/" target="_blank">no-man's land</a> on the border.

Migrants wait to receive food at a railway station in Milan, Italy, on June 11.

Local residents and rescue workers help migrants from the sea after a boat carrying them sank off the island of Rhodes, Greece, on April 20.

A group of refugees cross a highway near Horgos, Serbia, toward the Hungarian border on August 28.

Investigators in Burgenland, Austria, inspect an abandoned truck August 27 that contained the bodies of refugees who died of suffocation. The 71 victims -- most likely <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2015/08/28/europe/migrant-crisis/index.html" target="_blank">fleeing war-ravaged Syria</a> -- were 60 men, eight women and three children.

Syrian refugees sleep on the floor of a train car taking them from Macedonia to the Serbian border on August 30.

Migrants wait to receive necessary documents at a refugee center in the town of Presevo, Serbia, on August 26.

A migrant jumps a fence in Calais, France, as he attempts to access the Channel Tunnel leading to England on August 5.

Policemen try to disperse hundreds of migrants by spraying them with fire extinguishers during a registration procedure at a stadium in Kos, Greece, on August 11.

Refugees walk past people on a beach in Calais, France, during a demonstration on August 8.

Military personnel carry a coffin during an April 23 funeral service in Valletta, Malta, for 24 migrants who drowned while trying to reach the southern coast of Italy.

A refugee holding her child is detained at a train station in Bicske, Hungary, on September 3.

Syrian refugees walk the rails as they try to cross from Serbia into Hungary near Horgos on September 1.

So far in 2015, more than 300,000 refugees and migrants crossed the Mediterranean, exceeding the number in all of 2014, which was 219,000, a United Nations spokeswoman said. Click through to see images from the refugee crisis in Europe.

Authorities stand near the lifeless body of 2-year-old Aylan Kurdi on the shore of Bodrum, Turkey. Aylan, his brother Galip, and their mother <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2015/09/03/europe/migration-crisis-aylan-kurdi-turkey-canada/index.html" target="_blank">drowned while fleeing Syria</a>. This photo has been shared widely around the world, often with a Turkish hashtag that means "Flotsam of Humanity."

A Syrian refugee, holding his son and daughter, cries tears of joy after their boat arrived on the Greek island of Kos on August 15. The island in the Aegean Sea has been overwhelmed by Syrian refugees.

A migrant in Gevgelija, Macedonia, tries to sneak on a train bound for Serbia on August 17. More than 1,000 migrants enter Macedonia daily from Greece, heading north through the Balkans on their way to more prosperous countries in the European Union.

A French police officer tries to prevent migrants from heading for the Channel Tunnel to England in the northern French city of Calais on June 17.

Refugees rescued off the Libyan coast peer out a gate of the Norwegian ship Siem Pilot to get the first sight of Sardinia as they sail in the Mediterranean Sea toward Cagliari, Italy, on September 3.

A Belgian navy sailor throws life vests to refugees during a search-and-rescue mission in the Mediterranean off the Libyan coast on June 23.

Migrants board a train at Keleti station in Budapest, Hungary, after the station was reopened on September 3.

Children cry as migrants in Greece try to break through a police cordon to cross into Macedonia on August 21. Thousands of migrants -- most of them fleeing Syria's bitter conflict -- were stranded in a <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2015/08/22/europe/europe-macedonia-migrant-crisis/" target="_blank">no-man's land</a> on the border.

Migrants wait to receive food at a railway station in Milan, Italy, on June 11.

 

 

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Kurdi again raised his concern but the smuggler insisted, "It is guaranteed. Guaranteed."

Shortly afterward, the smuggler jumped overboard and swam toward shore as the waves pounded harder and higher.

Kurdi tried to take control of the boat but it capsized in the rough waters.

"I tried to reach for my wife and children," he said. "I was in the water for 20 minutes. One person after another was dying."

Turkish rescue teams were able to save some people aboard the boats, Turkey's governor's office said. Two men and a child who were traveling in the group are missing.

Originally from Syria's capital, Damascus, Abdullah said he was trying to get to Sweden by way of Greece.

"I don't want anything from anyone anymore," he said. "I will sit by my wife and children and read them Quran until I die, God willing."

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'No humanity'

 

Some said they hoped the images of the boy lying on the beach and his limp body being scooped up by a rescue worker could be a turning point in the debate over how to handle the surge of people heading toward Europe.

Nadim Houry, Human Rights Watch deputy director for the Middle East and North Africa, described the pictures as "haunting."

"Biggest indictment of collective failure," he wrote.

 

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